Homesexual-wellnessWhy Your Mind Is Blocking Your Pleasure (& What to Do About It)

Why Your Mind Is Blocking Your Pleasure (& What to Do About It)

sexual-wellnessJune 19, 2026
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Why Your Mind Is Blocking Your Pleasure (& What to Do About It)
If you’ve ever found yourself distracted, disconnected, or just going through the motions during sex, this
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If you’ve ever found yourself distracted, disconnected, or just going through the motions during sex, this episode is for you. Today, I talk through the very first sexual intelligence framework pillar: Embodiment. Being truly present in your body during sex isn’t something you’re either born with or not,  it’s a skill you can actually learn and practice. I walk you through exactly what embodiment means, why so many of us lose it (and why that’s not your fault), and the simple techniques I use myself that can completely transform how you experience pleasure, intimacy, and connection. Whether you’re single or partnered, this is the foundation everything else is built on, and I promise once you start practicing it, you’ll feel the difference in and out of the bedroom.

ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:
00:00 Welcome to Sex with Emily
02:58 Th Sexual Intelligence Framework
05:31 Pillar One: What Is Embodiment?
07:37 What It Feels Like to Be Truly Embodied During Sex
13:53 Micro-Movements & Waking Up Dormant Sensations
15:23 Shift to a Pleasure-Focused Mindset
17:48 Mindful Masturbation as a Solo Embodiment Practice
18:43 “Mirror Work” Appreciating Your Body Without Judgment

Source: Sex With Emily - Relationship & Sex Advice

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